My husband and I stood at the end of our street, overlooking the lake. We had two teens, both home at the moment, hopefully doing homework. We’d needed to get out for some air. “I’m beat,” my husband said. Hooking my arm through his, I agreed. “Me too.” We loved being parents, but sometimes we struggled with finding the right balance for our needs and giving our kids all the love and attention they needed too.
But when we’re there for each other, everything in life gets a bit easier. It’s important to acknowledge the good parts in your marriage. Being a little more positive with each other can lift you both. For a healthy and loving relationship, give your husband and yourself a boost with these 30 marriage affirmations for a more authentic relationship.
Marriage Affirmations for Your Husband
Is your relationship with your husband what you want it to be? Being genuine and vulnerable with each other can grow a more authentic relationship. Dr. Terri Orbuch, author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great, found in her research that when wives give affirming words to their husbands, these men feel “’noticed, appreciated, respected, loved or desired.’” And Erin Smalley of Focus on the Family points out that this “is one of the greatest predictors of marital satisfaction.” Look for opportunities to affirm your husband and see how these kind words can draw you closer.
1. Thanks for always being real with me.
2. I’m here for you.
3. We’re in this together.
4. I believe in us as a couple.
5. I’ve got your back.
6. We’re better together.
7. You’re not alone.
8. We’re stronger as a team.
9. We were meant for each other.
10. Our experiences make us stronger.
11. You bring so much to the table.
12. Our marriage is a blessing.
13. I need you.
14. I accept you for who you are.
15. Our bond is strong. Nothing can break it.
16. We’ve grown better as a couple and as parents over the years.
Marriage Affirmations for You
Authentic relationships are built on honesty. Think of your marriage as a pretty seashell. Over the years, it may have gotten buried by the tide. But don’t leave it hidden. It’s time to dust off the sand and let the shell shine in the sun. Remind yourself why your relationship with your husband is important. Why it matters. Give yourself these marriage affirmations.
17. I married my best friend.
18. My marriage is my priority.
19. I am loved.
20. I may not be young anymore or full of energy, but I still have a lot to give this relationship.
21. My marriage has value.
22. Being married to my husband has made me grow in many ways.
Genuine Truths for an Authentic Relationship
Remind yourself of what you’ve been through and what’s working well in your marriage. Daily marriage affirmations can give you both the encouragement you need to keep your relationship going strong.
23. It hasn’t always been easy, but we’ve never given up.
24. Every marriage has its share of struggles. We’re not unique in that way.
25. We’ve made mistakes. But we’ve grown from them.
26. Our friendship has had highs and lows. Let’s focus more on the highs.
27. We can be vulnerable with each other and share our fears.
28. Even though we’ve been married a while, we’re still individuals and we respect each other’s differences.
29. We may not always like each other in a heated moment, but we never stop loving each other.
30. We’re faithful and loyal to each other.
What aspect of your relationship do you enjoy the most?
